Goin back to Relationship basics
Uhmmm.. Im no Relationship counselor, but I know how to run a relationship.. Not just keep it running.. Keep it awesome! ( haha really now? lols ) We all want a perfect kind of relationship but you know for sure that perfect relationships dont exist. We all grew up with the whole fairy tale-like BS, the Prince – Princess sort of love? Anyone? but in real life, stories like that hardly exist. You see a lot of people completely happy and in love with each other , but the real situation is, they do have conflicts some times. There are just a few things though that a couple can do to make it almost perfect and keep the relationship at bay.
Its true that when you are in a relationship, you learn a lot of stuff.. and these are things Ive learned along the way. And guess what.. Im soooo in the mood to write them down, like right now… Ü
Let me start..
Dont ever make your partner feel that you are NEEDY – its a turn off. This usually happens to girls, but this could happen to a lot of guys too. A little jealousy over somethin or someone is cute, but if its causing too much conflict between you guys, or your boyfriend thinks youre an instant total freak when he mentions a name of an opposite sex.. is ofcourse . NOT healthy.. ( On top of that.. NOT sexy.. )
Wouldnt hurt to acknowledge? – is somethin I always do. And it works. Im not sayin you make “bola” with your bf/gf. Im just sayin if you have the opportunity to tell him/her how great he/she is, go say it. Its natural for humans to want to be recognized for somethin they did, they wear or whatever ( I want to recognized? I mean… like who doesnt? ). And the best person who should notice the good stuff is YOU. Like when my bf wore somethin and looks really neat on him I’d tease him, say ” Babe, you look reaally hot on that shirt “. ( Well I kinda exaggerate it .. nahh kidding! haha ) but seriously that simple phrase could go a loooong way. 
Also my advise to ladies , this is as per my observation. Guys love girls who are strong willed and independent . Nothin beats a girl who draws attention with her charm, but you also have to understand that guys, regardless of how independent of a girl you are still wants to feel stronger over you, and that’s what they are supposed to be in the first place, to be stronger than women. ( That’s part of a man’s composition as well, some ego, be the alpha ). You can maintain that strong personality, but you dont need to outshine the guy , make him feel that he can take care of you, besides, that is all that we gals wanted right? I guess Im lucky enough, I found a guy who wants to take charge of everythin. Although there are things that I’d rather do on my own, but as long as he is there I cant really expect to do it my way , because he would want to make sure first that everythin will be alright ( well, aside from the fact that he knows I am clumsy.. so there, I guess thats pretty much one reason too lol ) But what Im tryin to say is, if the guy truly cares for you, let him do it.
Nagging is dangerous to your health and to the love of your life- well yea?like literally. Nagging makes your stress level up and thats not a good thing. But if you have a bf/gf that really sucks and you cant help but really nag to your soul’s content, well I’d say… Im sorry Hon. Give your self a break and look at the bigger picture instead of pickin on petty details ( e.g, bf/gf failed to text or call you and you went wild like Godzilla ). Whatever the situation is, whatever the reason for getting mad is, look at it as an adult and move on from there. Nagging is a serious thing and Ive seen soo many of my couple friends break apart because of this.
So there.. Ive remembered them one by one so I thought of sharing them all to you. Atleast, if you realized you have one of those mistakes , you could fix them all together and keep a great relationship last.
