What makes a Guy so Irresistable
Posted in Love, Sex and Dating, Personal, Uncategorized on April 21st, 2010 by Joan Mae – 10 CommentsAright, Ladies of the World. Those of you who have been through series of short and long term Romances, of never-ending cycle of Make-up and Break-up, of Flings with no Strings. Whether you’re dating a punk, a jerk, a retard, a psycho , a nerd, a boy-next-door, or an Edward Cullen-ish type of guy, you lady knows exactly what you want and what sweeps you off your feet. And I … have my own list *evil smile* 
Thats – C – for Character
1. ) Confidence is Sexeeyyy – Okey, im not talkin of Alpha-male arrogance here. It’s when a guy winks at you and the effect is smoky and dreamy, his gaze is pure and seductive, the type so powerful it sends you shivers to your spine. Well, Im not sayin guys go Mr. Suave and stuff ( I mean that’s too outdated and might scare your girl away). Its when a guy radiates calmness and writes cool all over his face..thats what i mean by.. hawt!
2. ) He can communicate- Nothing is more unappealing than a guy who couldnt express himself in simple language. He doesnt have to be an orator or somethin but he knows well how to get his message across and has an idea of his own. A guy who generates his own opinion and sticks to them without bein’ rude or pushy is an absolute turn on.
3. ) He LOL as in *Laugh out Loud* – Its been a general principle that girls get drawn to guys with some sense of humor. But keep in mind though that there are different types of humor, comedies that are based on putting others down and calling them names isnt really sexy and might be offensive. But when guys are fun loving and knows when to crack, I give em’ a 10 for sexy rating.
4. ) He’s got the “Dont worry, I got it” attitude- He knows he’s the man, the one in control, he’s got his own ways and they usually work. He’s the first to think and the last to speak. I mean, we girls dont expect you guys to handle everything for us, but it certainly is a turn on when guys initiate first.
5. ) He’s not afraid to show his emotions- There’s an old saying that real men dont cry, or real men dont show their emotions. Hey, guess what, thats a myth! Crying is a natural human reaction to release stress, anger or pain. Its not a threat to your masculinity guys if you display your emotions once in awhile , that only shows that you are human and that you have deep feelings. I personally think that a man can be masculine without going overboard with it still rocks.
6. ) He respects a woman.. ( Regardless) – It is true, women these days are classified into many. That being said, its unavoidable for some men to take a different approach on women belonging to the lower part of the scale. There was an instance when I heard three guys talkin on a train station, one hollered out, talkin shit about some random girl he met in a bar. Well my bad, I was eavesdropping lol * But cmon dude, its an ego boost for you perhaps but would you want your mother or sister treated the same way? I’m not sayin guys go for Sainthood, but atleast keep the animal tendencies subtle.
7. ) He does random things – Its cute when a guy does little things to show that he cares for a girl. Like ramdomly sending a “Hello! I miss you!” text on a busy afternoon. Or bringing small gifts on regular days ( just because ).When a guy can do this, thats pretty much bein sensitive to your needs. Girls are a lil too obsessed with sweet nothings, and if you pull it off just right, youre up to drivin’ a girl wild.
So tell me, whats on your list??
